Many people know that there are several stages of falling in love, but they don’t know that the love stage can actually be divided into four stages. Understanding the different stages of the love stage can actually make your love last longer. Below I will share with you the four stages of love, and see which stage you are in?
1. Coexistence stage
In the coexistence stage of passionate love, two people appreciate each other’s good side and want to know more about each other, so they hope to be in love with each other all the time. Being together and inseparable is the sweetest moment. Because in the coexistence stage, both parties see each other's advantages, and both parties will not care so much about some innocuous problems. But there are also many hidden dangers in the coexistence stage. After all, everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings, and gaps will form as understanding deepens, so we must cherish the coexistence stage of love.
Suggestion: At this time, both parties should not imagine the other party too perfectly, because the greater the expectations, the greater the disappointment later. This is the time to learn more about each other, get to know each other, find common ground, and create beautiful memories. This will help maintain the sweet period of love and the subsequent development of the relationship.
2. Anti-dependence stage
With the end of the coexistence stage, after the two people understand each other deeply enough , the previous shortcomings are gradually revealed, and love inevitably becomes dull and reaches the anti-dependence stage. Because the two people had been in a state of excitement during the coexistence stage before, and now their brains have also entered a period of fatigue. At this time, both parties will return to their own life tracks and begin to want some space of their own to do their own things. At this time, relationships are prone to problems. A small problem can easily escalate into a quarrel. In severe cases, it may even lead to "Why are you so unreasonable now?"
Suggestion: In fact, when love has reached the anti-dependence stage, the most important thing is to calm down and give yourself and the other person more freedom and private space.
3. Independence stage
In fact, no matter how much two people love each other, they are still independent individuals. Therefore, after the anti-dependence stage is passed, it reaches the independent stage. If the anti-dependence stage problem is not solved well, the problem will be very acute at this stage, and failure to solve it can easily lead to breakup.
Suggestion: For two people who have reached an independent stage of love, it is best to leave space for each other. You watch dramas and I play games, you cook and I finish them. The two of them can each find something they can do. Of course, if you can find common hobbies between the two of you, it is also possible to plan some things that each other likes in a timely manner to maintain the relationship. For example, go on a trip and enjoy each other's beauty during the trip. You can also find each other's friends, preferably besties, to express your feelings through complaints.
4. Symbiotic stage
If you can survive the first three stages of the passionate love period, then congratulations, you have reached the symbiotic stage. In At this stage, the couple has been getting along and has their own suitable way of getting along. At this stage, your love has been elevated to a family relationship, and your way of getting along has taken shape. You support each other and start working hard for your own family. .
In fact, it is not easy for two people to go through the four stages of love. There are sweetness and quarrels, but those who can make it to the end can usually achieve success.
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